jus 'Ta Story_retoric

u just got a bad thing happens..
then someone ask you,"Are you sad?" 

then....only two things in my mind..
the first,"Am i have to answer that...kind o' question?"
the second,"I hope i can answer, 'No'."


but anyway, if you know in front of you lay a stone,
if you still stumb and fall, then what we call it?